7 KEYS TO BECOME
ATTRACTIVE
BE YOURSELF:
Never go pretending in other to get someone to like you
or perhaps get attracted to you. Most
people often try to fake everything, they fake their voice, bleach their skin so
as to fit into the other persons preferences, some even wear glasses to
disguise their eyes, maybe because they felt their eyes are too big and that
the person might not like them for it. If anyone doesn’t love you the way you
are naturally, then certainly that person isn’t the RIGHT PERSON for you .
If he says he doesn’t like your eyes
because they are too big; what does he expect you to do, cut them off?.
My dear just leave him because there is gonna be someone out there who would
see those sets of eyes and call them SEXY.
If he says that you are too black, then you free him so that he could go and
marry his YELLOW.
DON’T BE DESPERATE: Some people in
other for them to attract the right mate, they end up becoming desperate. For
example ; you meet a girl today, and she gives you her number , and immediately
you started calling her, every morning, afternoon, evening and night. Dude the
girl would sense that you want something and she would get tired of you
quickly. Some bad girls might then decide to turn you into a MAGA and eat up all your money. Guys
sometimes you just have to give the ladies some space, so that they could miss
you and your vibes. Don’t always be there for the ladies, so that they would
value the little time you spend with them.
BE CONFIDENT: There is something
about boldness and confidence that makes an individual attractive. Most ladies don’t
fancy guys who are shy, they prefer going for a guy who is bold when he speaks
and who can look them straight in the
eyes when talking to them, they need a guy who would take charge.
DON’T OVER COMPLIMENT :
Most guys often make this mistake of over complimenting a lady.
There is this general notion or perception guys these days have, they think
when ever complimenting a lady would make her like him. No that’s absolutely
wrong, most girls get tired and often see such guy as fake. Guys its advisable to only give compliment when due and
necessary.
DON’T BRAG: Never try bragging or
showing off in an attempt to attract the right mate. Because bragging would
only bring the wrong mate to you. So guys I suggest you all to be neutral and
humble.
BE PURPOSEFUL: Most times we can
only attract the right kind of mate whenever we walk in our line of purpose or
career. Why most girls are been abused in a relationship or marriage, is
majorly because they are purposeless and do not have dreams and vision. When
you do not have a purpose then your spouse would give you some, and you might
end up becoming a liability, instead of becoming an asset. Remember when there
is no purpose, abuse is inevitable. So ladies and gentlemen kindly get a life,
learn a skill to be of importance.
SAY NO TO PERFECTIONISM:
Most people in other to attract the right mate, they always try to be
perfect in everything. And this act would make them try their possible best to
hide their flaws. But sadly that doesn’t work in relationship. In a
relationship, there are rooms for mistakes and this helps to enhance the
relationship in becoming healthier and lively. The major problem in being a
perfectionist, is that it makes you self righteous , acting like you know
everything. And this could make the other person uncomfortable being around you
due to inferiority complex.
Article written by kingsley zikora. Instagram ID @kingsleyzikora
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